The Name Game

We have a girls name picked out. Don't even waste your time asking what it is b/c our lips are sealed.
Reason being, I hate it when you say a name and someone says " oh, I know a Sara. I don't like her". Or, "oh I know a Bethany, her mom"....blah blah blah blah.
So my lips are sealed until the day Baby Cakes is born.

I will however, vent my frustration on a boys name. WTF is it so hard. I finally won the battle of using B's real name as the middle name and now I feel that nothing goes with it.
If you happen to be one of the lucky ones who knows what his real name is, I am open to suggestions. I mean after all, time is ticking.